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Spiritual Care and Chaplaincy
On this page you will find:
• National Day of Reflection 2021
• An introduction to our spiritual care and chaplaincy team
• Importance of spiritual and religious needs
• Hearts for the Hospice
• Spiritual and religious support for your loved one
• Multifaith resources
• Local support
• Information for local faith leaders
• Online live streaming of services
• Music for reflection and peace
• Thought of the week
• General resources
• Some prayers
• Learn more about spiritual care and end of life through education
• End of life resources
Please note, many of the links below are directed to third party websites. Although we make every effort to ensure these links are accurate, up to date and relevant, St Nicholas Hospice Care cannot take responsibility for pages maintained by external providers.
National Day of Reflection 2021
Since the first UK Covid-19 lockdown began in 2020, millions have been bereaved. The National Day of Reflection, coordinated by the charity Marie Curie and officially supported by the Church of England, will designate a special day to reflect on collective loss and grief.
On 23 March 2021 there will be a minute’s silence at 12 noon to create a moment that shows support for the millions of people who’ve been bereaved.
Our Spiritual Care and Chaplaincy Team is here to support people in our care and those who are important to them. It is also here as a resource to our local community and its organisations, offering spiritual, religious and pastoral care for all. Our chaplains are from various Christian denominations and the Humanist tradition.
All of us are different with individual needs, expectations and wishes. People of a particular faith may have religious wishes that they would like fulfilled. Spiritual care has many definitions; it is “essentially providing a safe and hospitable place where people can choose to explore spirituality in the way that suits them best” (White 2006:104).
- We provide care for all those living with caring, dying, death and grief.
- We recognise that spirituality is unique for each person, therefore, the support we offer is person-led.
- We will respond with sensitivity to the needs of the individual.
- We offer empathy, compassion, a listening ear and support for all.
- We will endeavour to make contact with any faith leaders at your request.
- We are part of holistic care offered by St Nicholas Hospice Care.
- We lead “Light up a Life” and “A Time to Remember” events that are an opportunity to remember those we love who have died.
- We offer a 24-hour on-call service for those on our in-patient ward.
- We visit when requested those throughout our community at home or in care homes.
The spiritual and religious needs of a person are very important. If your loved one or the person in your care or their family is seeking religious support, it is important to ask questions, to enable you to know what support is wished for and needed. Ask if the person can share what is important to them, the things that make them who they are and who is in their network of care and support.
The following questions might aid you in getting the conversation started. It is important to listen to what is being said or avoided.
Sources of Hope:
What keeps you going in difficult times?
Are you part of a religious or spiritual community? How does that help you?
What spiritual beliefs do you find most helpful to you personally?
Effect of healthcare:
Is there anything I can do to help you cope spiritually at this time?
Over the coming weeks and the on-going challenges that the coronavirus will pose, the need to help families and friends cope with dying, death and grief and continue to feel connected is so important.
The knitted hearts, made and donated by so many Hospice staff, volunteers and people from across our community, have over recent months supported individuals to feel less isolated and more connected with loved ones; they can be given to those unable to see and be close to the people important to them.
We hope that these tokens help to forge emotional links between loved ones, creating a feeling of togetherness, which we hope will give peace and comfort to those who need it.
If you or someone you care for would like a heart, please email firstname.lastname@example.org. If your loved one is at the Hospice, please speak to a member of staff or phone 01284 766133.
Spiritual and religious support for your loved one
If your loved one belongs to a local faith community, they may wish to have some connection with their own faith leader. At this time our spiritual care and chaplaincy team or other local faith minister may not be able to visit someone in person. However, prayers may be said and conversations had that bring comfort found by phone or video link.
The links below will enable you to find different worshiping communities, both nationally and locally.
- Different denominations of the Christian Church
- A church near you: Church of England
- A Roman Catholic church near me
- Find my mosque
- Find your nearest synagogue
- National council of Hindu temples
- List of Gurdwaras
- There are other philosophies offering spiritual comfort to people at the end of life. Understanding Humanism provides resources about the humanist view of life, death and happiness.
Local Multi-Faith Organisations
Interfaith Week 2020: Sunday 8 November – Sunday 15 November
2021: 7 November – 14 November
This year’s activity can be found here.
View the annual Calendar of festivals.
Faith communities are responding to COVID-19 in a variety of ways.
Find out more
Guidance on sending greetings
Find out more
Celebrating Interfaith 2020
The Hospice joined staff from hospitals and health centres in West Suffolk to celebrate Interfaith Week 2020.
Below you will find links to local support relating to different faiths.
We have also produced a guide to the spiritual and religious needs of people in our care and those important to them at the end of life. You can read this by clicking here.
- Understanding Buddhist Death – chaplaincy booklet (University of Bristol, 2012)
- Local: http://triratnaburystedmunds.org/
Bury St Edmunds Buddhist Group: Quaker Meeting House, St Johns Street Bury St Edmunds, IP33 1SJ
- National: The Buddhist Society
The Buddhist Society, 58 Eccleston Square, London, SW1V 1PH
Tel: 020 7834 5858, email: email@example.com
- Buddhist Health
- Buddhist Funerals
There are many different Christian faith groups. Please follow this link for a list.
- Baptist Church
- Chinese Church Cambridge
地址 Address: 5 Pound Hill, Cambridge CB3 0AE
电话 Tel: 01223 50619
- Church of England:
- Greek Orthodox Church of the Mother of God
- Methodist Church
- Romanian Orthodox Church
St Athanasios, Cambridge – 154 Cherry Hinton Road , Cambridge, CB1 7AJ
St Cosmase St Damian, Ipswich
- The Roman Catholic Church
Locally: Diocese of East Anglia: https://www.rcdea.org.uk
- The Salvation Army
Individual churches of Suffolk may be members of Churches Together in Britain and Ireland, and one of the four national ecumenical organisations, through their national denomination or organisation.
- Bury St Edmunds: https://together.ourchurchweb.org.uk/stedmundsbury/
- Thetford: https://www.thetfordchristianstogether.org/
- Sudbury: https://churchestogetherinsudbury.org.uk/
Daily Hope also offers music, prayers and reflection as well as services – 0800 804 8044
- The Hindu person at the end of life
- The National Council of Hindu Priests
- Hindu Council UK
Secretariat Office 22 King Street Southall UB2 4DA
- Ipswich Hindu Samaj
Community Centre & Mandir, 5 Thoroughfare, Ipswich IP1 1BX
Tel: 01473 399391/07944180026
- Hospice UK – Finding comfort in hospice care and the Muslim faith
- Bury St Edmunds Islamic Cultural Organisation
- Network of Sikh Organisations (UK)
Lord Singe – Director of NSO, 43 Dorest Road, Merton Park, London SW19 3EZ
Tel: 020 8450 4148
- Cambridge Gurdwara
Tel: 01223 591469
- Information on Coronavirus regarding advice and funerals
Other faith groups and organisations
The Baháʼís of Suffolk
- Bangladeshi Support Centre
BSC- Multicultural services, 19 Tower St, Ipswich, IP1 3BE
Tel: 01473 40081/429740
- British Red Cross
- Church of the Latter – Day Saints (Mormons)
- Elim Pentecostal
- Hari Krishna: International Society for Krishna Consciousness
Bhaktivedanta Manor, Dharam Marg, Hilfield Lane, Aldenham, Nr Watford, Hertfordshire, Tel: 01923 85100
- Humanist: non religious pastoral support
Humanist funeral and memorial ceremonies
- Ipswich and Suffolk Council for Racial Equality (ISCRE)
Tel: 01473 408111
- Ipswich, Suffolk Indian Association
- Jain Spiritual Care Committee (2011) Jainism and care for Jain patients
- Jehovah’s Witness
Christian Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses, 1 Kingdom Way, West Hanningfield, CM2 8FW, Tel: 020 8906 2211
- Pagans: The Pagan Federation
- Quakers: Religious Society of Friends
Friends House, 173 Euston Road, London, NW1 2BJ
Bury St Edmunds: Quaker Meeting House, St John’s Street, Bury St Edmunds IP33 1SJ
- Lithuanian Roman Catholic Church
Tel: 0207 739 8735
- Seven Day Adventists
Bury St Edmunds: 1A Fornham Road, Bury St Edmunds IP32 6AH https://bury-st-edmunds.adventistchurch.org.uk/
Haverhill : 13- 15 Chauntry Road CB9 8BE http://www.haverhilladventist.uk/
Bury St. Edmunds Spiritualist Church c/o 43 St Johns Street Bury St. Edmunds IP33 1SP
- Newmarket Pioneer Centre, The Scout Headquarters, Cardigan Street, Newmarket, Suffolk CB8 8HZ Tel: 01954 267034
- Taoist – Taoist Tai Chi Society of Great Britain
- The Refugee Council
The Interfaith Network
Multi-faith guides (APHCC):
The Spiritual Care and Chaplaincy Team can be a resource to support you as ministers and the local community by signposting to local relevant people or bereavement support. Please email us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
During the Covid-19 outbreak, services and masses may be restricted. Please check your local community for up to date information. Some communities are live streaming services and masses and some of these can be viewed using the links below:
The Spiritual Care and Chaplaincy Team has provided some music that may offer reflection and peace. Please feel free to sing along or listen to well-known hymns ‘Amazing Grace’ and ‘The Lord’s My Shepherd’, and a piece of instrumental music entitled ‘Peace’.
The Spiritual Care and Chaplaincy Team is made up of volunteers of different faith traditions. Some have decided that they would like to share their own personal thoughts, stories and reflections which they hope will inspire positive thoughts. Here are their ‘Thoughts for the week’.
Please see below a selection of links to different of prayers, which you may find comforting at certain points during a difficult time.
- Prayers of love
- The Lord’s Prayer
- Prayers that can be used in care homes
- Prayers of Commendation
- Prayers that can be used for a funeral (Church of England)
- Prayers that can be used during memorial events
GraveTalk is an opportunity for learning from one another in a safe environment where questions can be shared and discussed.
The Church of England
Diocese of St Edmundsbury and Ipswich
The Roman Catholic Diocese of East Anglia
Muslim Community in Bury St Edmunds
End of Life resources
Caring for a friend or family member dying at home
RCN – Care home journey
Caring for those approaching death – chaplaincy and palliative care
What to do when someone dies – what should I do next? | Age UK
What to do when someone dies: step by step – GOV.UK
With thanks from the Reverend Canon Sister Sharon Connell to all those who took the time to give feedback and contribute to the content of this page:
St Nicholas Hospice Care chaplaincy volunteers
St Nicholas Hospice Care colleagues
Suffolk Coalition of Disabled People
Suffolk GP Federation
East of England Ambulance Service